Kirinyaga County, Kenya – Cases of gender-based violence (GBV) against men are quietly rising in Kirinyaga, with three men recently hospitalized after violent attacks by their spouses. Authorities say the true scale of the problem could be much larger, as many victims choose to suffer in silence.
One of the men is recovering at Kerugoya Level 5 Hospital after being stabbed nine times by his wife, according to Lucy Njeri, a Nominated Member of the County Assembly (MCA) and member of the Gender 42 Technical Working Group on GBV.
Njeri explains that male victims of domestic violence often avoid speaking out due to fear of embarrassment and social stigma. Unlike female survivors, who receive more public and legal attention, men tend to hide their experiences—leading to underreporting and limited support.
“Many men are suffering silently. Society expects them to be strong, so they fear being judged or ridiculed if they speak up,” said Njeri.
She emphasized that although national attention has rightly focused on violence against women and girls, violence against men is also real and deserves equal attention.
The Gender 42 Technical Committee has completed a detailed report on GBV and femicide, which is set to be presented to President William Ruto. The report includes recommendations on how to address all forms of gender-based violence, including those targeting men.
While Njeri did not reveal the full contents of the report, she expressed hope that the government will act on its recommendations to improve protection, justice, and mental health support for both male and female survivors of abuse.
Gender-based violence is not limited to Kirinyaga. Across Kenya, both men and women face abuse in various forms — including physical, emotional, and psychological violence. However, public awareness and services for male victims remain inadequate, despite calls for gender-balanced protection policies.
Organizations involved in GBV response are now urging the government, law enforcement, and communities to acknowledge male victims, break the silence, and provide safe avenues for reporting and receiving support.
The growing number of men being abused by their partners in Kirinyaga is a wake-up call for both local authorities and national leaders. True progress in the fight against gender-based violence means protecting everyone, regardless of gender.
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, speak up. Help is available.
